Private (1:1) Cycle-Breaking Parenting Coaching
Three months of bespoke, trauma-aware coaching to help you navigate the messy, real-life moments of parenting differently while building emotional maturity, self-trust, and healthy relationship skills in both yourself AND your kids.
I know your time and attention are limited as a mama. (And if you're anything like me, you've probably got approximately 47 tabs open in your brain right now. 😂) So if you're a "just tell me what’s included and how much, Kim" kinda girl, I've got you.
But if you’re a “gimme all the details” girl, please continue... 😉
I’m a busy mom, too, and I’m not a fan of traditional long-ass sales pages as a consumer/client. And my guess is you’re kinda tired of ‘em, too. 😉
So instead of boring you with a long list of what I’m “supposed” to be putting here that your nervous system is now primed for “ok what bullsh*t do I have to sort through to get to what I really need to know?!” 😂 …
I thought I’d switch things up and just put the information you probably actually wanna know. 🤪
What 1:1 Coaching With Me Really Looks Like
(based on my values of groundedness and transparency)
I’ll be honest, there are some ways others in the coaching industry are practicing—especially regarding sales and marketing—that I REALLY disagree with. That when I hear about them as a trauma-aware coach and human being just…make my blood boil.
Maybe you’ve come across some that rub you the wrong way, too.
But I’m not a fan of smear campaigns or throwing each other under the bus. To each their own. And I choose to believe that we’re all doing the best we can with what we have at any given time.
(Plus, as women I believe that we need to do more of supporting each other and standing in our own power, and less tearing each other down.)
So instead of telling you all the “red flags” or what to run from with other coaches, I choose instead to make it abundantly clear how I roll. And then you can choose the path that you’re feeling most pulled towards.
If that’s me, sweet! I’d love to get to know you and your family and support you guys in your badass cycle-breaking path. If that’s not me, sweet! I’m glad you’re trusting yourself and finding your person. 💛
But I believe that to be able to trust yourself and find your most aligned mentor or coach, the decision to invest in coaching should always be something you do from an empowered, rooted place of aligned inner guidance and intuition. Not from fear, pressure, shame, insecurity, or stress.
(Honestly that sounds like a trauma bond, and that’s not how we roll around here.)
So let’s get to it!
What you can expect in a 1:1 coaching relationship with me
Coaching is the most powerful and brings the best results when we’re both clear on what we’re bringing to the table and what to expect…yes, before we even hop on a call or start working together. Definitely after!
I believe that you shouldn’t have to wade through sales pages and contract legalese before you actually understand what you’re getting.
And coaching and mentorship is a two way street, just like any relationship.
(BTW, this is exactly what I share with my clients as part of my onboarding process!)
So here’s what you can expect from me if we were to work 1:1 with each other:
I’ll create a safe, supportive, and confidential space where you can be real about what’s happening in any facet of your life that you’d like to share and desire support around.
I’ll show up fully present in our sessions (and in between, on Telegram), bringing my expertise, perspective, and care.
I’ll respond to you in a timely way (always within 48 hours, often faster).
I’ll take the time to really understand your goals, desires, and challenges in the context of your life.
I’ll bring curiosity, neutrality, and new ways of seeing things.
I’ll offer strategies, options, feedback, and priorities to help you reach your goals and desires—but never tell you what you “have to” do. You’ll always be in the driver’s seat.
I’ll hold responsibility for showing up as the best Coach I can be for you and supporting you in the best way possible, and I welcome—and encourage—your feedback anytime to help me help you better.
And if I ever miss something or inadvertently cause harm, I’ll always attempt a repair with you.
(Oh, and I’ll probably drop some F-bombs and other swear words from time to time; but not in front of your kids. 🤪)
Here’s what I’d ask from you (as my client):
Lean into the container and support fully and openly; collaboration and communication are the magic here.
Show up to our calls and Telegram support present and open, with curiosity and a willingness to explore new perspectives and guidance.
Reach out between sessions—don’t save everything for our calls! That’s what the Telegram support is there for. Use it! 😘
Share what’s really going on—with your kids, health, family, relationships, work, challenges, etc.—so I can support you with the full picture.
Define what you’re hoping for in our work together (goals, desires, priorities, intentions), knowing these can and may evolve and shift along the way.
Stay engaged with the process: experiment with strategies, reflect on what’s working, and let me know what feels supportive (and what doesn’t).
Keep me in the loop on your progress and challenges so we can make adjustments together.
If something feels off or I miss the mark, bring it to me directly as soon as possible so we can repair it together.
You'll notice with those it's never ever about do X many things I tell you to do, because the goal is to empower you to start learning to listen to your body and your inner knowing and trusting her more. 💛
Think of me more like bumpers rather than driving your car. 😉
You should be the one “driving your car”, always.
The technical deets of what’s included in my 6 month 1:1 coaching container:
2-4 x 60 minute Zoom calls with me a month so there’s time to integrate what we talk about and we can co-create the container in the way that suits your brain and life best. Because we’re all a little bit different, and that’s beautiful!
For example, some clients book calls every week/most weeks (this, I’ve found, works particularly well if you process things externally best)
And some clients book a call only every 2 weeks and we do a lot more coaching asynchronously in Telegram (this, I’ve found, works particularly well if you prefer more time to process and implement between calls, you process things through writing best—an internal processor!—and/or the age of your kids or your schedule makes a less frequent face to face call the better option.)
You get unlimited support from me in a private Telegram channel between calls (it’s a free, easy to use app you can use from your phone or your computer and we can send voice notes, text messages, files, and even videos!) between calls. Because that’s when the juicy (and super tough) stuff comes up, and it’s also super mom-life friendly because it’s there in your pocket when you need it!
If I’m running a lower ticket program like a masterclass or group program during our time together, you’ll get a coupon code from me to get it/them for free if you want it.
Regardless of the balance between face to face calls and non-face-to-face (aka asynchronous) time in Telegram that works the best for you, I get to know you and your family deeply and am often just thinking about my clients throughout my day and pop into Telegram when I have a suggestion or thought around how to help them more.
You get me fully in your corner. 💛
And I think it’s worth saying…it's always going to be me you're talking with and getting coached by and talking to.
Whether that's on a call (duh haha), email, Telegram, DMs, etc. It's just me. Not a support coach or a VA. No AI bots. Just moi. 😘
Not that those things are necessarily bad—and it sounds silly to say—but I value transparency and I think it's worth being super clear about that because I've seen and been in programs where that wasn't always true.
If that ever were to change in the future, it would be clearly and abundantly communicated to you and all of my clients.
The investment:
$667 USD/month x 3 months (or $2,000 USD pay in full)
It honestly doesn't matter to me which option a client chooses between pay in full or monthly payments, and I don't like having to pay a premium just to do a payment plan so that's just not how I roll in my own packages. And I try to make this as accessible as possible.
So it's the same total price either way. Whichever feels better for your nervous system and family/business conscious spending plan (what I prefer to call budgets 😉).
Click the button below to book a free consultation call and talk about working together. ⤵️
P.S….Credit for lower-ticket offers ⤵️
If you were to buy a smaller offer from me as you get to know me and my work and then decide to move into full 1:1, I will always credit that toward your full 1:1 package.
(So for example, if you were thinking about working 1:1 together but decided to do a one-off session first and then decided to move into the full 1:1 work, the price you paid would act like a coupon towards the price on this 3 month package. So it ends up being like a free bonus!)
What if you had a prior coaching experience that didn't end up feeling like what you thought you were investing in, and the thought of investing in another high ticket container—even if you really feel called to—feels scary as shit?
I created The Soft Start just for you.
Because unfortunately, you are so not alone in this. And I choose to be a part of the change for good in this industry.
I know investing in coaching can feel scary, period. Especially when you've invested in a program or container before that just... didn't end up being what you thought it would be. (Or maybe even what you were told it would be.)
Maybe the "high-touch support" turned out to be mostly provided by support coaches or an AI version of the coach and rarely actually getting to interact with the coach you thought you were hiring.
Or the "personalized guidance" was actually an option to get maybe get 3 minutes of the coach’s time on a hot seat style call with a hundred other people once a month.
Or you were told you could get your money back if you weren’t happy, only to find out they had a very specific list of things you had to do to prove to them that you “tried hard enough” and refused to actually hear you, let alone follow through on their promise.
You might have invested thousands and came out feeling more confused, frustrated, and alone than when you started. Maybe all this happened at once, or maybe just one thing…but it was enough.
That damages trust—in the coaching industry, sure, but also in yourself. And I'm genuinely sorry that happened to you. It’s happened to too many women.
So if you're feeling the pull toward 1:1 support with me but your nervous system is screaming "what if this is another mistake?", I see you. And I’ve got you.
With The Soft Start, you get the exact same level of access and coaching my 6 month private (1:1) coaching clients get, but for just 2 weeks. And at a fraction of the cost (just $197).
Here’s how we’ll roll:
We start with a 60 minute coaching call on Zoom where we get clear on what feels really present for you, where you’re feeling stuck, and what you want support around over the next 2 weeks.
And I open a private channel for us in the Telegram app (which is free!), where you and I spend the rest of the next 2 weeks coaching together.
You get unlimited coaching from me there—meaning you can ask and/or share anything and everything you want, whenever you want and it’s on your mind—and I coach you around it.
Messages in Telegram can be sent via text or voice note (and I personally don’t believe in setting time limits for voice notes because I, myself, if you haven’t noticed 😉 am an expressive girl. So they could be 30 seconds long or 20 minutes long, one message or 10, or anywhere in between. 🥰)
You get to feel it out. Experience how I show up, how I coach, how you feel in the space. See if this container is what you've been looking for. Take that first step towards rebuilding (or building!) the trust in yourself.
There’s no obligation or pressure to do any more coaching together than that if it doesn’t feel aligned after getting the full experience of working with me 1:1.
BUT if you do choose to move onto the full 3 months of work together afterwards, then that $197 automatically gets applied to the full cost.
So ya either get 2 weeks of deep coaching for a super reasonable price and you move on, OR you basically get 2 weeks of coaching for free if we keep rolling. 😘
(P.S. - to date, every single woman who’s started with The Soft Start has decided wholeheartedly to move forward into the full coaching container directly afterward.)
Wanna chat about The Soft Start? Book a free consultation call below!
FAQs
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If you’ve tried group coaching or courses before and felt like you just couldn’t make the progress you want because your situation is different, and/or you found that you just really really craved someone to get help from that could know your exact story and situation and help you make the plan yours, then 1:1/private coaching is likely a great fit for you. Because that’s why it’s my favorite!
We have the chance to go deeper and faster than in a group or course setting because I get to know you, your life, and your family really really well and you have unlimited access to me 5+ days a week between Telegram and calls.
On a consultation call, we can talk through your specific situation and goals and I can help you decide if 1:1 coaching is the best next step. -
Asynchronous coaching means you can full support from me, but we aren’t necessarily on Telegram (the free messaging app we use) at the same time.
You can reach out anytime through text, voice notes, or video, and I'll respond within 48 hours (usually same-day or within 24 hours).And I mean truly anything:
Tough parenting moments ("My kid just said this and I don't know how to respond")
Nervous system support before a scary or overwhelming thing ("I have to [whatever] and I'm spiraling")
Life transitions and relationship stuff ("Here's what's happening with my partner/my mother/etc...")
"Telling on yourself" when you notice you're getting in your own way and need support to move through it
Celebrating wins, processing tough moments, working through limiting beliefs
Anything else that comes up in your life
Some clients love having more frequent calls and use Telegram as a supplement. Others find frequent calls draining or hard to schedule and do most of our work asynchronously with fewer calls. We figure out what works best for you and your capacity.
This is especially powerful for moms because:
You don't have to wait until our next scheduled call to get support
You can reach out in the pockets of time you actually have - no need to find a quiet hour
You get support when you need it most, not just on calls
It's like having a coach in your pocket throughout the week for your whole life, not just your kids and not just during scheduled calls.
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I recommend a minimum of 3 months to truly deepen the cycle-breaking you’re working towards, and I offer a 3 month package because in my experience that feels the safest on most women’s nervous systems when putting their trust in working with someone new. Most clients see significant changes in their parenting and life within this time frame.
But honestly the deepest and most sustainable results come from longer term work because again, you’re a full-ass human being, with unique kids, and there are often layers of things at play. (Especially as a cycle-breaker.)
And most of my private clients do choose to continue for another 6-12 months or more after the initial 3 month container, because there’s such a deep benefit of long-term work with the same coach.Some clients feel completely happy and complete with just the 3 months.
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Yes! In addition to our coaching calls, you’ll have unlimited access to me through Telegram (via text or voice messages). This allows you to get support, check-ins, and clarity between calls—especially when those “in-the-moment” questions or challenges arise.
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Life happens! I understand that things come up, especially as a mom. While rescheduling as soon as you know is ideal, I get that kids and germs don’t give a damn about schedules. 😂 So I just ask that you reach out to me in our Telegram channel and let me know what’s up and I’ll work with you to move the call to a time when we’re both available.
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While this container is built in a way that we co-create the balance between face-to-face calls and asynchronous support that works best for you, your family, and your beautiful brain…
If you feel you have a unique situation that requires zero calls, just talk to me about it (on our consultation call or you can email me at kim@kimdifillippo.com) and we can talk through it.
I do offer Telegram only packages from time to time, so just reach out and ask if you feel that might be the best fit. -
Absolutely. While my main focus is working with cycle-breaking mamas, I also am happy to support women who are passionate about cycle-breaking but are not yet moms, who are bonus moms, or even never choose to become moms if we are otherwise a great fit for each other!
Don’t feel like you have to fit in any box to work together! If you feel called and think working with me could help you, book a call and let’s talk it out! I’d love to hear your story and support you if it feels aligned. -
I do my absolute best to provide an inclusive and safe space for everyone and I’ve done (and continue to do) work around anti-racism, diversity, equity, and inclusion and believe in my ability to coach and work with anyone.
That being said, I will fully own that I am a cishet white woman and therefore have my own filters and life experiences and sometimes might get things wrong.
But if I ever f*ck something up, I am always dedicated to a conversation around it and making it right in a way that honors and supports your experience. And I am dedicated to always working to keeping the space in general a safe and supportive space for all.
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Coaching is an investment in yourself, and I want to make sure it’s the right fit for you. While I don’t offer refunds, I encourage you to book a free call with me to discuss any concerns and ensure we’re aligned before moving forward. And if you choose to start working together, I always encourage all of my clients from day 1 to keep an open conversation with me about what feels good, what doesn’t, what support you’re loving, and what you don’t like or need differently. Because this container is for YOU, and I’m always here to support you in the best way possible that works for you. That’s the beauty of 1:1 work, and something I especially love about working 1:1 with my clients.
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Totally get that. Especially if you’ve had not so great (or unfortunately even harmful) experiences with other coaches, it’s totally normal to feel a little more hesitant before investing with someone new.
I’d suggest booking a free consultation call with me, and then my Soft Start option might be a great fit for you.
And you’re always welcome to shoot me an email at kim@kimdifillippo.com or hit me up on IG and we can chat things out and get to know each other a little better in the DMs.
No matter what, I encourage you to slow down, breathe a bit, and trust yourself. xx